树欲静而风不止

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树欲静而风不止 子欲养而亲不待

出处:孔子集语

释义:树想静静地呆一会,可是风却让他不停地摇曳。当你想赡养双亲,可能他们已等不及便过世了。

原文:

孔子行,闻哭声甚悲。孔子曰:「驱驱前有贤者。」至,则皋鱼也,被褐拥镰,哭于道傍。孔子辟车与言曰:「子非有丧,何哭之悲也?」皋鱼曰:「吾失之三矣,少而学,游诸侯,以后吾亲,失之一也。高尚吾志,闲吾事君,失之二也。与友厚而少绝之,失之三也。树欲静而风不止,子欲养而亲不待也。往而不可追者,年也;去而不可得见者,亲也。吾请从此辞矣。」立槁而死。孔子曰:「弟子诫之,足以识矣。」于是门人辞归而养亲者十有三人。

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